Question:i'm just curious. are you more dominant or submissive in the relationship? - Anonymous
Answer:
I don’t know how to answer that… I would prefer to be on equal terms with my partner in a relationship. I don’t really like the terminology of “dominant” or “submissive” in terms of a relationship that I would be in. It makes a relationship kind of a power play, and I think there’s already enough of that in society. I guess I’d just like to love someone without stereotypes? But, I definitely don’t have that much experience :p so if that makes me submissive because I don’t know what I’m doing, ok
In my last relationship, though, some people told me I was the “man” and others said I was the “sub”. So I don’t really know. Guess it’ll depend on the person I’m with and what kind of relationship we have
Question:physically, what do you want her to look like? - Anonymous
Answer:
I don’t believe in having “requirements” persay. I’d know that I’d like it if she was a comfortable height for me to look into her eyes, but otherwise… For me, it’s more important to have somebody I connect with. I want to find someone who is mentally/intellectually beautiful as well as hopefully being attractive. But physical beauty is not the important thing for me.
ok… I don’t really know though. Perfect doesn’t exist, although it would be nice if she was an artist or musician… I feel like I get along better with people who are interested in the arts. But really, I think I need someone who will talk to me and listen to me in equal amounts. Someone I have mutual understanding with, and who won’t ignore me or demand all of my attention all of the time. Someone who I love, who loves me, and is willing to be committed to a relationship with me. I want to be able to trust her with all of my secrets, and to talk honestly with her. It would be awesome if she was ok with comfortable silences, and cuddling, and bunnies. If she understood that I really don’t know what is going to happen in my life, and didn’t pressure me. Also someone who would talk to me about things that are maybe going wrong in our relationship, and who doesn’t make unrealistic plans or expectations that neither of us are ready for.
…. But then again, anyone who wants me would be fine.
